system increases, taking this into account, the conditions change accordingly: the duration of sleep decreases, wakefulness increases. At this time, you can begin the education of cultural and hygienic skills and habits. It starts with concretization: wash your hands, wipe your mouth with a towel. To put it mildly, you arouse the baby's emotional attitude to the procedures, he himself begins to participate in them, as if in a game. I want to remind parents once again: do not think that sleep, food and walking are necessary for a baby until one year. It is necessary to influence his visual, auditory and tactile development, teach him to listen to speech, follow the toy and respond to loved ones. Love and inner instinct will tell you exactly what your child needs.
Already at the beginning of the second month, the child separates from everything around, first of all, the mother. He gives her the first smile, and she causes his happy revival. This reaction to the mother is explained by the fact that it is she who takes care of the baby. Mother (father, grandmother) patiently eliminates discomfort, lovingly talks, sings, cradles. Through the mother, the child learns to enjoy communication with adults. This communication then becomes his need, which develops him mentally and psychologically. Affectionate emotional communication makes the child receptive, teaches him to consider, look, listen, follow and imitate the actions of adults. In the future, the actions of adults (positive!) become an example that shapes the personality of the child. At two to three weeks of age, ensure the development of visual, auditory and tactile sensations.
The child plays with his hands and feet, holds them, examines them. He wakes up a little, but already at these short intervals it is necessary to hang toys at a height of 50-70 cm, so that it is convenient for him to see and follow them. For this, you need to tap on the rattle and move it to the right and then to the left. Bright, colorful toys attract attention. The baby hears voices, mother's melodies, and the sound of screaming. So he learns to understand things, learns to focus on specific things. Big, bright toys are recommended. From four weeks to five months, the baby is already looking at toys longer, and you can hang them in several pieces. At the same time, pay attention to the fact that the baby is only interested in the toy for two or three days, so they need to be changed. New toys are exciting. After a few days, you can hang the
old toy again, he will be happy with it, like a new one. It is best to position the toys so that they hang high above the chest with arms outstretched. After accidentally touching them with his hands, the baby freely interacts with them: he feels, grasps and acts with his eyes and hands at the same time.
At three months, the child can already lie on his stomach and hold his head well for a few minutes. Toys should be placed in his view so he can examine them. Gradually moving the toys, the adult exercises the baby in the ability to follow the movement of objects with his eyes. This method should be used when he is lying on his stomach, on his back, not only on his side, but also when he is sitting in the arms of an adult. The first stage of training - teaching to follow a toy that moves in front of your eyes - lasts 2-3 weeks with daily performance. Then the baby already considers not only toys, but also various items inside the room. Adults stimulate this by drawing his attention to the lamp and books. By four months, your baby needs to be taught to take a rattle from an adult's hands and hold it. The following technique is recommended for this: you need to touch the child's hand with a sound, he will open his palm and hold the squeaker, you can slowly pull it, so that the baby learns to hold and feel it.
At five or six months, you need to teach him to look at toys for longer and to transfer them from hand to hand. You don't need to hang them. The child must pick them up. To do this, he tends to sit, and thus gradually moves from a lying position to a sitting position. At this time, the baby unknowingly discovers the characteristics of objects and toys, but distinguishes their color, size, and one that he likes among the many toys. A six-month-old baby already distinguishes between adults and strangers: he smiles on his own, frowns at a stranger. If in the first months we taught him to listen to sounds and respond to them, now we will begin to demand loving communication from him, that is, we will teach him to "walk".
When talking with the child, we repeat the letters (aha, ma-ma, goo-goo) several times until he folds his lips and tries to “talk” to us. Moreover, self-pronounced sounds bring great joy to the child. From seven to eight months, it is best to put the baby in the arena. There he moves, crawls, tries to get up, that is, he develops. Many parents mistakenly believe that it is necessary to